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Welcome to Solo Second Half

I’m Pam and this is Nugget. We’re glad you’re here.

Solo Second Half started as a way to process life after 50 — all the beauty, the grief, the solitude, and the WTF moments no one prepares you for. I share honest, unscripted videos about aging, starting over, letting go, and finding clarity and courage in this wild second act of life.

🔹 Solo Second Half (YouTube)
My main channel — real talk, storytelling, and a growing community of people who are figuring it out, just like you.

🔹 The Porch
A softer, slower companion space. Calmer vibes. Deeper reflections. Often featuring this handsome guy right here.

If you're here, maybe you’re craving connection, clarity, or just someone who gets it.
You’re not alone. You’re not behind.

And you’re not done yet.

Let’s talk. Or just watch for a while.
Either way, welcome.

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✨ Join the Solo Second Half Porch Pals (Members Only)
If you’ve been enjoying the channels and want a little more community welcome to Porch Pals, my cozy little members-only space.

💬 Monthly “Tea on the Porch” livestreams
🎥 Early sneak peeks + unfiltered rambles
🐾 Bonus Nugget sightings (he insists) 🪑 Porch Pals Member content is completely ad-free.

It’s $4.99/month and helps support everything I do here.
Pull up a chair and come hang out. Nugget & I would love to have you on the porch. ❤️

A heartfelt thank you —
Whether you’re watching, commenting, or sharing, your support means more than you know. You’re part of an incredible community, and the free content on both Solo Second Half and The Porch will always continue.

Porch Pals is simply a cozy, members-only space for those who want to go a little deeper.

Grateful you’re here. ❤️

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One Human. Two Channels

Solo Second Half is where I speak boldly and honestly about life after 50 — solo living, aging, independence, grief, regrets, family drama and finding your voice again. Real talk, viral rants, and soul-level honesty.

The Porch is slower. Softer. More reflective. It's where I share quiet stories, observations, and moments that feel like sitting with a friend. Sometimes Nugget and Keighley & Connor join too.

Watch more on YouTube — click a button to explore each channel.

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Let’s Talk

Whether you’re navigating the solo second half or just need a real conversation with someone who gets it — this is your space.
No fluff. No scripts. Just clarity, connection, and direction. All calls take place on Zoom — easy, private, and the link will be sent to you right after you book.

📅 Weekends Only: 8am–12pm EST

30 minutes • $45
1 hour • $85
Book a chat—Nugget will be supervising.

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